Hey besties! 💖 Ever feel like your outfit is totally giving sweet girl energy, but your hair just doesn't match the vibe?

Been there. I used to throw my hair into a messy bun and call it a day—but once I started playing around with soft and cute hairstyles, it changed my whole look! 💇‍♀️✨ So today, I'm sharing my go-to ideas for getting that soft girl hair that looks sweet, effortless, and a little bit magical.

🌼 Curtain Bangs or Wispy Bangs

First things first: bangs.

If you want a softer vibe instantly, bangs are a game-changer. I started with curtain bangs (they frame the face without being too bold), and eventually tried wispy Korean-style bangs. They make your eyes look bigger and give this gentle, dreamy feel. If you're not ready to commit, try clip-in bangs first!

🫧 Loose Curls = Instant Softness

Nothing says sweet like fluffy waves.

I use a large-barrel curler or just braid my hair overnight for natural, bouncy curls. The trick? Brush them out lightly and add a bit of hair oil to keep them soft and shiny. It looks romantic without trying too hard!

🎀 Half-Up with Bows

This one's my personal favorite.

I'll take the top half of my hair and clip it back with a soft bow or pearl hairclip. It gives that doll-like charm and keeps the hair out of your eyes too. If you have short hair, even a mini claw clip can work wonders.

🧸 Braids, But Make It Cute

Low twin braids or a loose side braid are my go-tos when I want that playful sweet girl energy.

I always loosen them a little to avoid that “too tight” look and tie them with pastel scrunchies or satin ribbons. Bonus: super comfy and cute for all-day wear.

🌸 Soft Colors & Gloss

If you like coloring your hair, lighter shades like chestnut brown, milk tea, or peachy tones can soften your whole vibe.

And don't forget hair gloss or shine spray! I've been using a rose-scented gloss serum lately and it makes my hair feel super luxurious.

💬 Let's Chat!

So what's your go-to hairstyle when you're feeling extra soft and sweet?

Have you tried clip-in bangs, or do you swear by your curling iron like me? I'd love to know your favs—and if you want a tutorial post next, let me know in the comments! 🫶

Thanks for hanging out, and remember: even the smallest hairstyle tweak can change your whole vibe. Let's keep glowing and growing, one cute look at a time 💕